Is it possible to be happy in Love??

[metmagic]

or does it always lead to heartache????



your thoughts, everybody...... :confused:



somebody tell me, cuz i really wanna know.........

[GTS41]

It always leads to heartbreak, for me anyway.

[metmagic]

now WHY is that John? is this some kind of universal law???? it sucks......

[rockin500]

heartbreak for me. I dont believe in it cuz a person has to love themselves truly first before they can love someone.

[metmagic]

you too rockin? yeah i agree but it's so damn hard not to lose yourself when you fall for someone..... loving yourself definitely is the key though...... but it's so damn hard when you start to love them more.........

[rockin500]

yup.

[Liter22]

Yup it lead to heartache :biggrin:

[Liter22]

Originally posted by metmagic
you too rockin? yeah i agree but it's so damn hard not to lose yourself when you fall for someone..... loving yourself definitely is the key though...... but it's so damn hard when you start to love them more.........

Well put Cyn:biggrin:

[metmagic]

ok, now there's GOTTA be somebody on this dang board who's experienced the happy side of love!!:confused: kathleen? kellye?? anybody here find happiness in love??? i mean, like found someone who made them happy and STAYED happy......... surely there's gotta be somebody here who can share something positive..... give the rest of us hope ( :hmm: ) .....i'm feelin' kinda sad..... i could use a little bit of encouragement here.... :hmm:


*sigh* or maybe the bottom line is LOVE SUCKS...... :hmm:

[imgreat95]

cyn... yes, there can be total happiness in love. I found it once, but I let it get away due to my stupidity. I also know that I will definitely find it again.

[Liter22]

Originally posted by metmagic
ok, now there's GOTTA be somebody on this dang board who's experienced the happy side of love!!:confused: kathleen? kellye?? anybody here find happiness in love??? i mean, like found someone who made them happy and STAYED happy......... surely there's gotta be somebody here who can share something positive..... give the rest of us hope ( :hmm: ) .....i'm feelin' kinda sad..... i could use a little bit of encouragement here.... :hmm:


*sigh* or maybe the bottom line is LOVE SUCKS...... :hmm:

Sad aint it?:hmm: I don't think love sucks just maybe it's the way most of us approch it. Maybe some of us go to fast or are scared about the thought of love or a real comittment just because of a couple of crappey experiances:hmm: :hmm:

[Rockin Robin]

Kathleen and Kellye are both newleyweds, so you can't go by them.


Me personally, yeah, I thought I've been happen in love, but its always led to heartache for me in the past.

But supposedly "it" happens for everyone. As cynical as I am on the whole subject, I refuse to *completely* give up hope.



Gawd, Cyn, we sound like Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte and Samantha!

[GaryMrMets]

Cyn, does this mean that you are really in love with that cop friend that you recently met?

[renuszm]

I havent been happy and fell in love in about a year, it's a good combo though :biggrin:

[metmagic]

lol robin :biggrin: we do sound like a Sex & the City episode! :uhoh: :biggrin: and yeah i feel the same way-- despite being on the cynical side, something in me truly believes (*sigh* why am i such a Met fan??) :ohno: :hmm:


gary, yes.... and i'm afraid he's gonna break my heart.....




shawn, i totally think you'll find it again...... she's probably out there somewhere, that cute little Met fan you'll end up marrying....... :biggrin:

[imgreat95]

I wouldn't necessarily say it would be a Mets fan. The girl I am seeing right now, happens to be a HUGE Pirates' fan...:biggrin:

[metmagic]

that reminds me! i was watching "Driven" on VH-1 this evening and they had a segment on Christina Aguilera..... did you know she sang the national anthem at a Pirates game??? (i think it was about 10 yrs ago?? she looked about 10 yrs old)

i know you are thrilled to hear this.......... i was dying to share this juicy tidbit with you after i learned about it on VH-1 :)


WHO KNEW!!:uhoh: :biggrin:


(oh, and she sounded amazing)

[imgreat95]

well, she did sing the national anthem on opening day here in 2000... That was the night that I got engaged, and she sounded absolutely HORRID. She was also dressed lkike a total slut in 32 degree weather. So, she must have sang it at some point before then if you thought she sounded good..


Christina is from right down the road from where I go to Krispy Kreme's all of the time. My buddy, John, went to HS with her and said that she always smelled funny.

[metmagic]

no, it must've been 1990 cuz she was about 10 yrs old.... and she sounded GREAT.... so who knows what happened?


does your friend John know why everyone hated her in highschool? her mom even mentioned it when they interviewed her..... it seems like everyone hated her wherever she went...... she does seems very diva-b*tchy, but was she like that in highschool too??


are you still obsessed with those dang krispy kremes??? :hmm:

[imgreat95]

i'm not exactly sure why. I will have to ask him if he knows. The only thing that he ever mentioned to me that I remember is that he said she always smelled like hot dogs. WHatever that means.


Cyn, I can't help it that I am obesssed with them... every single time that I go to either Barnes & Noble... or PNC Park... or Starbucks... or Quaker Steak and Lube (which all combioned is at least twice a week) I drive right past there... and i can see the big flourescent sign which reads "HOT DOUGHNUTS" and there is nothing I can do to keep myself from stopping. Add to that, that every time I mention to anyone that I am going to Pittsburgh, I have everyone at work handing me money and orders to stop and pick them up some...


What's a guy to do?

[metmagic]

AMAZINGLY, i still have not tried even one little bitty bite of those evil krispy kremers.......:uhoh:


and you can't make me try one! i won't! i won't i tell you! (but i know that nanner will break down and eat the whole box! that girl's got absolutely NO will power!) :smokin: (hi nanner, i love you my buddy my pal :biggrin: are you reading this in scotland??):P

[imgreat95]

Thats right... Nanner is in Scotland... No wonder I haven't seen her since I came back..


Cyn, I know you.... and i guarantee you that you can't resist the power of the Kremes. ESPECIALLY if i hide them and don't tell you that is what they are until after you eat them.

[metmagic]

:uhoh:




you wicked wicked man........ :evillaugh

[imgreat95]

what did I say??

[Yankee 21]

Yes in, it is possible to be happy in love! Call me a newlywed, but Bobby and I have been together for four years and we are still very happy and very much in love. Even with all the bad stuff going on right now, you know what I mean Cyn!
I got very lucky, I married my best friend. He knows exactly when I need a good laugh or a good cry. Or when I just need the distraction of sitting on the couch playing a PS2 game. He loves me when I feel so shitty that I don't feel like doing anything with myself and still says I'm beautiful.
I would die for Bobby. I would throw myself on the sword just to save him.
So, the answer to your question Cyn is a huge Yes!

[PissedPrincess]

In an answer to your question Cyn, YES.

[I Are Baboon]

Originally posted by pedro's princess
In an answer to your question Cyn, YES.

Agreed. My wife is my best friend. :)

[PissedPrincess]

This is how cool my husband is: When Wake gave up the 3-run Hr last night, he let me punch him...repeatedly.

Gotta love that.:cool:

[choateschick38]

My name's Juliet, and I went out with a guy named Romeo for six months...

but then we broke up, so I guess I'm not really helping, but we are still friends.

[Nymet31]

Hey just because Kell and I are newlyweds doesn't mean that we haven't had bad excperiences..

I was once told that you can't have true love with out being hurt. May sound sad or corny, but it's true. How else can you know what it is to love if you haven't ever loved and then been hurt?

Mike and I were friends first then lovers and trust me there have been times when I wanted to run screaming away. I know there have been times he has felt the same way, but that is what makes a relationship a relationship.

I've heard all the "soulmate" stuff and that "perfect someone" crap too, but honestly I think that nobody knows if there relationship will last until it's lasted f o r e v e r!!!!

Do I know that I want to grow old with Mike? Yeah I do.

Do I ever see myself without him? No

Love is taking a chance... and hopefully that chance will be forever.

The best thing about falling in love and getting hurt is that eventually time passes and you move on!

Cyn I hope everything works out with you and your guy. What ever the feelings are just go with it. You can't live your life waiting to see if he'll hurt you. You might just miss the good stuff happening!

[rockin500]

I stopped believing in love. :)

[underdogfan]

Love is a verb. It is not an emotion, although it is fueled by emotions, some of which are very, very strong. I have been married for just over 11 years and although it hasn't always been this warm, fuzzy feeling like we had when we were dating, it is the greatest decision I ever made. I decide every day when I get home from work that I am going to "love" my wife even if I don't particularly "feel like it". Yes, she still turns me on. And her touch still does things for me. But, we don't base our relationship on emotions. The greatest thing I can say about my wife is that I know she would NEVER give up on me. When we stood before God and said "for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health as long as we both shall live" I know that we both meant it more than anything. And now, my children teach me more every day what unconditional love is really about. The biggest load of crap I hear is "we have a 50-50 marriage". If you both try to give 100% every day, even when one of you screws up and comes short, there is enough to fill in the gap.Sorry to be so lengthty, but that is a lot to say in less words.

[Rockin Robin]

Hey, I just got off the phone with Scott, who I'm seeing Saturday, so at the moment I firmly believe in the possibility of love!!!
:lust: I know I'm getting about five steps ahead of myself, but I just can't help it!


But I still can't help having that guarded cynicism, based on past experiences.......

[SexyChocolate]

Love is the hershey syrup on the ice cream of life

[Rockin Robin]

Now that's an analogy Cynthia can relate to!