It's not you, it's me

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

Woo Hoo! I'm guy repellent! :clap2:



:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

[RamsAndAngels]

what the........

HUH???

[Nymet31]

Sorry I dropped off before Jen. The dogs were barking...that includes Mike!

I'm glad to see your taking this well. Stupid Guy if he can't see what he's missing out on!!!

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

It was kinda ment to be sarcastic... but I'm kinda thinking it's true. All the guys I have been out with since West say the same thing "I really like you, but I can't be with you"....... why? I dunno :notme: only conclusion I can come to, I'm guy repellent :banghead

[Nymet31]

I seriuosly don't think it's true... how many guys you been out with since West? how many of those guys didn't know West?

Stop this insanity and realize that your a GREAT catch for any guy!! that's there problem if they don't see it..there are many many more out there!!!

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

I've been out with Casey, Jesse, Ryan and Matt..... Matt was the only one I had a "real" date with...

of those guys, Jesse knows West cuz he's my best friend (other than West) and Matt is a friend of West, that's how I met him.

[Piazza'sbabe]

I'm sorry it didn't work out Jen. :(
And I don't mean this to be mean but...
How old are you? 19? Trust me you have to kiss a lot of frogs till you find a prince. And with every person you meet and every relationship you have you gain something very valuable....

Experience. :)
And I wouldn't trade all of my experiences for anything in the world.


When you stop trying so hard is when you find someone special.

[uj4l]

sorry:( forget aboiut "MIKE" nyways

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

not that it really makes much difference but I am 20. I know things take time... but each one seems to lead to bigger disappointment. I thought I really had a good one this time. He was nice, fun, had a great sense of humor... and he really liked me. He didn't care what I looked like (though he said I was beautiful :)) or how much I weighed (which bothers me very much)... but he liked ME! The real me, he thought I was funny, he laughed at my silly little quirks, and even asked about my writing. What kind of guy puts that much effort into a date only, to walk away empty handed?

[uj4l]

somethings u may never know and that sux!:( from what u said it seemed like there were many more datyes to come.

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

I thought there was George :(

[rockin500]

this might seem strange, but maybe he thinks you are a great person and would rather be your friend?

[Piazza'sbabe]

Originally posted by ~*TiGeRs f@N*~
not that it really makes much difference but I am 20. I know things take time... but each one seems to lead to bigger disappointment. I thought I really had a good one this time. He was nice, fun, had a great sense of humor... and he really liked me. He didn't care what I looked like (though he said I was beautiful :)) or how much I weighed (which bothers me very much)... but he liked ME! The real me, he thought I was funny, he laughed at my silly little quirks, and even asked about my writing. What kind of guy puts that much effort into a date only, to walk away empty handed?

Ok, but with time you learn to take things people say with a grain of salt. I never buy any guys line when I first meet them. They are usually lines to get into your pants ;)
People sometimes just don't "mesh" romantically, maybe as friends he thinks your a great person. Maybe he didn't feel a spark.
Is that your fault? HELLS NO. you are who you are and that's fine. not all people feel the same about each other.

I've been reading a lot of your posts about boys and such and the best piece of advice I can give you is: learn to love yourself. When you are comfortable in your own skin then nothing else matters. If you don't love yourself then no one can love you.
When I meet someone and it doesn't work out you know what I say to myself? Their loss! Not mine, theirs. :D
But until you learn to do this (and sometimes we can't learn these things on our own, we sometimes need professional guidence like a therapist) you'll be running around, chasing your own tail, blaiming yourself.

[TXRangers]

Jen, you write poetry. You are in touch with your feelings more then most are by doing that. Just because a "boy" didn't take the time to see you for what you are, then why ponder his mistake? You must get over him. It is his lost.

You have to always look to the better side on things. If you don't you will get swallowed up in your own self pity. Who cares about your physical body? You shouldn't. If you give off your soul you will find a soul mate!! I don't think anyone has found a mate by going out on a date. I didn't. When you find your life partner you will find him in the least likly place. When you aren't trying to find him. You will find him when you are just doing something that is normal for you to do, like helping someone else do something, and you will bump into that person! Just pertrude you and you will attract the right one. Stop trying to fall in love, and give out love to others. Trust me, it is not you runinng these guys off, it is the way you aren't acting in front of them. Just be Jen. Your clothes don't matter to a real guy, your conversation will. Your a good friend Jen, you deserve to feel happy and it will start with yourself first.

TXRangers:fro:

[cxlx]

Poor lil Simba....http://www.fobclub.com/images/smiles/cry.gif

Its ok. Youre still young. Live it up. Enjoy yourself, before you get the lock down of your life, marriage. hehe My advice is pretty much the same as everyone elses. You have to remember that you are Jen. If they cant accept you for who you are and all that you stand for, then pfft, NEXT!!! Either way, you always got these hunks (http://www.addictsports.com/baseball/attachment.php?s=&postid=187974), who would be more than happy to have someone as cool as you. :D

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

Thanks guys!


BOB you are THE BEST! :luvkiss: :luvkiss: :luvkiss:


one question though... do I get to keep all 6? :D

[cxlx]

Originally posted by ~*TiGeRs f@N*~
one question though... do I get to keep all 6? :D

Yes you may. ;)

[~*TiGeRs f@N*~]

Originally posted by cxlx
Yes you may. ;)

Thanks Bob! :luvkiss: