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Nanner
11-23-2004, 02:08 PM
I got this e-mail from a friend. I figured a good way to let people know, if they want to consider responding to this, would be to post it here.

If you feel so inclined to send off an e-mail to 20/20, thanks, and if you don't, certainly no problem.

The comments addressed to McKinney by Matthew's father got to me, and I was moved to write to 20/20.

I have put the e-mail address of 20/20 in bold, and also the suggested e-mail. Or, you can write what you want, if you want to address this program.


November 17th, 2004

Dear Friends,

Almost four years ago, in preparing to write the script for "The Matthew Shepard Story" for NBC, I traveled with friend and co-writer, Jacob Krueger, to Casper, Wyoming to interview Judy and Dennis Shepard, Matthew's mom and dad. If anyone had justifiable claim to bitterness, it would be the Shepards, given the gruesome, widely-reported murder of their child. But we found them generous, gracious and unflinchingly honest in the face of questions that were hard enough to ask, let alone answer. Those qualities and the pain any parent feels for others who've lost a child, however, aren't what seared the Shepards into my heart forever. It was their extraordinary act of mercy.

For those of you who may not know, Matthew - a 21-year-old, openly gay student at the University of Wyoming - was tied to a fence in a remote location outside of Laramie and beaten to death with a pistol by two young men, Russell Henderson and Aaron McKinney. Only one of the murderers, Aaron McKinney, was ever brought to trial for the killing; Russell Henderson pleaded guilty in exchange for two life sentences without parole. McKinney was found guilty of two separate counts of first degree murder and faced what many thought to be a likely death sentence. But prior to the sentencing phase of the trial, Judy and Dennis showed uncommon mercy to this young man who refused to show mercy to their son when he begged for his life.

They bypassed vengeance, no small degree of closure, and what many would consider justice and persuaded prosecuting attorney, Cal Rerucha, to abandon pursuit of the death penalty. I want to share with you an excerpt of the address made to the court and to Aaron McKinney by Dennis Shepard on the final day of proceedings.

Matt officially died at 12:53 AM on Monday, October 12, 1998 in a hospital in Fort Collins, Colorado. He actually died on the outskirts of Laramie, tied to a fence that Wednesday before when you beat him. You, Mr. McKinney, with your friend Mr. Henderson, killed my son...

You left him out there by himself but he wasn't alone. There were his lifelong friends with him, friends he had grown up with... the beautiful night sky with the same stars and moon that we used to look at through a telescope... the daylight and the sun to shine on him one more time, one more cool, wonderful autumn day in Wyoming... the smell of Wyoming sage brush and the scent of pine trees from the Snowy Range...

He had one more friend with him. One he grew to know through his time in Sunday School and as an acolyte at St. Mark's in Casper as well as through his visits to St. Matthew's in Laramie. He had God. I feel better knowing that he wasn't alone...

I would like nothing better than to see you die, Mr. McKinney. However, this is the time to begin the healing process. To show mercy to someone who refused to show any mercy. To use this as the first step in my own closure about losing Matt...

Mr. McKinney, I'm going to grant you life, as hard as it is for me to do so, because of Matthew. Every time you celebrate Christmas, a birthday or the fourth of July, remember that Matthew isn't... You robbed me of something very precious and I will never forgive you for that. Mr. McKinney, I give you life in the memory of one who no longer lives. May you have a long life and may you thank Matthew every day for it.


In exchange for two consecutive life sentences, the murderer, in consult with his attorneys, agreed to waive all rights of appeal and "to refrain from talking to any news media organizations" regarding the criminal case against him. The Shepard family, said Judy, "would never have to hear from him again."


Now the unfortunate point of this letter. I beg your patience just a moment longer.


ABC News program, 20/20, recently announced it will be airing an interview with Aaron McKinney the Friday following Thanksgiving, November 26th, in blatant disregard for the agreement struck between the killer and the Shepards. No doubt, there will be more unnecessary pain inflicted upon Judy and Dennis, but the most disappointing part of the decision - at least in my opinion - is the casual dismissal of the Shepard's exemplary act of mercy.


The recent election may have exposed a significant divide among Americans on many issues, among them homosexuality. But I'm confident we still agree on many things, including these three:



· that murder is wrong (Exodus 20:13);

· that violating a promise or an oath is wrong (Numbers 30:2);

· and that showing mercy is good (Matthew 5:7).



Please join me in affirming these basic human values by:



1) sending an e-mail to the producers of 20/20 at 2020@abc.com urging them not to air the McKinney interview. You can copy this message into your e-mail if you like:

"I stand with Judy and Dennis Shepard, urging you to recognize the agreement embraced by Aaron McKinney and his lawyers at the time of his sentencing, which, in exchange for prosecutors not seeking the death penalty, prohibited Mr. McKinney from talking to any news media organizations regarding the criminal case against him. Please do not air the McKinney/Henderson segment or any part of it, scheduled for November 26th, 2004. Sincerely, (Your name).



2) Should 20/20 go ahead with plans to air the interview, don't tune in. Instead, make plans to use the hour affirming the Shepard's act of mercy with smaller acts of your own... like volunteering locally or writing a check to your favorite helping organization.



3) Lastly, forward this e-mail to as many people as you can. The more pressure brought to bear on ABC, the better.



Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.

John Wierick

Durango53
11-23-2004, 02:48 PM
Man I hate this story!!!!!!

So much is not told about it and so much is covered up and so much just ticks me off.....


First off let me say this. The a-holes that killed this guy need to fry. Let them answer to God for what they did.

I agree with you Nancy this story shouldnt air. This state has gotten a black eye from this story and the damm press wont let it heal!!! When I was at FL people would ask me where I was from and I would say WY and they would bring this story up and how we was all backwoods and idiots here.

I can not express how mad I am about everything about this. There is so very much that hasnt been told about Sheppard and the people just happen to forget when they put his story together. I dont care about that though I do care about is how bad the press paints Wyoming and my town of Casper!!!!!!

They didnt say that all of downtown was closed off at his funral because a-holes from out of state came in and raised hell... From both sides not just one. And the a-hole press just showed those dumb ass bastards with all those hate signs and hate yellings and said here is Wyoming folks!!!!!! BULL CRAP!!!!! They dont show Wyoming folks hating those people too. (the ones that came to show support for this murder of this poor guy) They dont show them keep coming back to town and wanting to put up some of the worst things in our wonderfull parks to celebrate the killing of this poor guy. They show that as people from Wyoming. We are the ones that are suffering along with the Sheppard family for this mans killing. We have to deal with a lose of a man much to young. We have to deal with the press painting us as backwoods killers that dont understand.

What the press is painting of Wyoming isnt true and this makes me so freaking mad!!!!!

Because of all the lies that is abounding about this story just makes me so freaking sick!!! These two A-holes that killed this man should get the chair. The girlfriends that helped them should have life in jail. And the press and the movies about this guy that was exicuted should tell the truth about him and Wyoming.....

Sorry all this just makes me the maddest I can get!!!!!!!

Nanner
11-23-2004, 06:25 PM
Shad, I understand your feelings. I agree that sensationalizing by the media of the killing of Matthew Shepard was reprehensible. Anytime the media gets hold of a story and runs with it because it will be "good press", people get hurt. Other people use it as an opportunity to get back at others and hurt others........ people who had nothing to do with the horrendous crime, but are lumped into a whole group.

So once again, the media is stirring things up..... hence the request to 20/20 to not air the program. The whole reason for my post was to inform people, that if they wanted to contact 20/20 about this, here was an opportunity. ABC is once again disregarding the feelings of others, simply to pull in viewers.

McKinney has gone back on the agreement....... the agreement which so generously gave him his life...... and ABC is helping the killer do that. They shouldn't do that. That's the reason for the e-mail, and the post.

Durango53
11-23-2004, 11:00 PM
I understand why you put it up Nancy ;)

I just wanted to add on to this by saying there is so very much that people dont know about this case. And that the way the movie and media paint us people in Wyoming is not how we really are....

Nanner
11-24-2004, 12:13 AM
Well, the people who judge all of the people of Wyoming by the actions of the evil monsters that killed Matthew Shepard, are just stupid.

And here's a perfect chance for you to take your beef directly to the media. You don't have to write what the suggested e-mail says. You can mention your reason for not having the whole thing brought up again, and let them know specifically what your problem is with them. Hell..... whatever keeps it and McKinney off the air!

Obri
11-24-2004, 08:47 AM
This is not a case I was familiar with previously, but I am sickened by anyone who takes advantage of another's good nature, not to mention having brutally murdered their son in the first place! Very upsetting story. Consider my email sent.

Durango53
11-24-2004, 10:47 AM
I agree with you reasoning also Nancy. This is just a punk that is trying to get money it seems on this case and going against what was part of the deal. And that is also something that aint done in Wyoming. No matter what kind of person you are you dont craw fish on a deal.

Dan I will PM you with a short story on the case.

Nanner
11-24-2004, 10:48 AM
Consider my email sent.

Thanks, Dan.

rockin500
11-24-2004, 10:57 AM
couldnt someone in prison do the world a good deed and just off the bastard??

I was disturbed when i first heard the story when it first happened years ago, and it disturbs me that this sicko is reneging on his word.

Nanner
11-24-2004, 11:03 AM
couldnt someone in prison do the world a good deed and just off the bastard??

I was disturbed when i first heard the story when it first happened years ago, and it disturbs me that this sicko is reneging on his word.

Agreed. On both counts.

Apparently he learned nothing from Mr. Shepard's generosity. :Pissed:

PissedPrincess
11-24-2004, 11:33 AM
Ray beat me to it. Have the family have this guy killed in prison. :thumbsup:

rockin500
11-24-2004, 12:16 PM
Ray beat me to it. Have the family have this guy killed in prison. :thumbsup:
great minds think alike. :cool:

Rockin Robin
11-25-2004, 01:22 PM
I was sickened when I heard the events surrounding Matt's death. The evening news normally does not make me cry, but this one certainly did.

I make it a rule to never watch made-for-TV movies. But when this one aired (last year?) I had to watch it. I was pleased that it was done with such dignity.

I'm absolutely enraged that 20/20 plans to air this story. Not to mention the fact that it violates a court agreement. I certainly will be writing to 20/20 to prevent this interview from airing. I'm just not sure how kind I'll be.

Thanks, Nancy, for pointing out this outrage.