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yagsy
04-22-2005, 01:31 PM
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04/22/2005 12:45 AM ET
Caminiti didn't miss the dance
MLB.com
Barry M. Bloom

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Ken Caminiti's brother, Glenn, and sister-in-law, Debbie, embrace during Thursday's ceremony honoring the former Padres third baseman. (Lenny Ignelzi/AP)


SAN DIEGO -- When a man perceived to be a hero is torn out of a community much too soon, it creates a wound, a tear in the psyche that never really heals. It doesn't matter much how or why it happened -- just that it did.
As Ted Leitner, the longtime Padres broadcaster, told a crowd of about 30,000 on Thursday night at PETCO Park, last year the baseball community, in general, and San Diego, in particular, lost Ken Caminiti. It doesn't much matter how or why. Those details have been well reported. What matters is that he is gone.

A cloud of dust -- or in a baseball sense -- ash in the wind.

"We loved him when he played here," Leitner told the somber crowd over the public address system. "We love him now and we will love him forever. Nothing will ever change that."

The short ceremony began with a video of Cammy feats the Padres used to show regularly at Qualcomm Stadium and ended with a moving tribute to his life, produced by the Padres' Chase Peckham. After the closing bars of Garth Brooks' "The Dance" faded in the ballpark where Caminiti never got a chance to play third base, the crowd stood and, in memory of one of their own, gave Cammy a standing ovation.

"Glad I didn't know the way it all would end, the way it all would go," Brooks sang as pictures of Caminiti with his wife, Nancy, and three daughters were wrapped around action video clips from different eras in his career. "I could have missed the pain, but I'd have had to miss ... the dance."

It's the third time I've seen that particular piece of video, and I'm not ashamed to say that tears streamed down my cheeks all three times.

In one sense, there is the anger at the way he went, to a drug overdose at the age of 41, leaving behind his three daughters -- Kendall, 13, Lindsey, 11, and Nichol, 8 -- who were all in attendance on Thursday night. In another sense, Cammy was a comet that streaked across our landscape and burnt out much too quickly.

He lived hard, played hard and was gone just like that. He certainly didn't miss the dance. And on his public stage of a baseball diamond, he performed for a short time like none other.

"He was a warrior. He was a friend and a great teammate. He was all those things," said Mark Sweeney, who played with Caminiti on the Padres' 1998 National League championship team and is back with the club this season.

"He was a bulldog," said Trevor Hoffman, also a member of that singular team. "He was extremely intense. He didn't care about himself. He just did whatever he had to do out on the field to win a ballgame."

It is a strange twist of fate, but in my long career as a journalist, which includes an 11-year tour covering the Padres as a beat writer, I have written the obituaries of four one-time Padres players: Alan Wiggins, Eric Show, Mike Darr and Cammy.

Three of the four were drug-related deaths. None of them were easy to write about. This one still isn't.

Darr was 26 years old in 2002 when he drove off a highway late one night near the team's Spring Training facility in Peoria, Ariz. Darr's last game was also the last for Tony Gwynn, who had retired at the end of the previous season.

Show, whose 100-win total is still the highest in franchise history, was an accomplished jazz guitarist and could argue religion and politics with the best of them. He was so racked by demons while ensconced in a drug rehab facility one night that he injected himself with a speedball -- a mixture of cocaine and heroin -- and never woke up. He was 37.

Wiggins holds the team's all-time single-season basestealing record of 70, a stat he posted in 1984. His daughter, Candice, plays basketball at Stanford and has the same jaunty gate and burst of speed. Her father, withered and weak, perished at 32 because of a tainted needle. His death certificate listed AIDS as the cause of death.

In 1996, Cammy became the only Padre in the team's first 36 seasons to win an NL MVP award. That he admitted later he used steroids during that stellar season doesn't really taint the accomplishment -- not for me, at least.

Caminiti played so hard and dove so often, he tore his right shoulder apart.

"He was always playing with intense pain," said John Moores, the team's majority owner, who added that he loved Caminiti like a son. "My understanding is that you can take steroids to help recover from injuries quicker. I'm sure that's why Cammy must have been using them -- at least I hope it was."

It was Moores' desire to honor a fallen, if fallible, hero, giving a proper send-off to a man fans voted as the team's top third baseman of all time.

He wanted the girls, especially, to capture a glimpse of how their father was adored. After all, they were way too young to recall Caminiti, wearing his trademark No. 21, diving to spear another hard-hit baseball, leaping to his feet and, with aplomb, tossing the runner out at first.

Those were good days then for the Caminiti family. They are not so good now.

Their dad would've been 42 years old on Thursday. That night, he was alive again in the mind's eye. We all sure could've missed the pain, but then we would've missed the dance.

Barry M. Bloom is a national reporter for MLB.com. This story was not subject to the approval of Major League Baseball or its clubs.

yagsy
04-22-2005, 01:34 PM
I'm glad that the Padres are not shying away from the drugs that were so apparent in Cammy's life. Hopefully this example will save someone from following the same path.

#21 was painted on Petco's grass behind home plate was a nice tribute. I'm also glad that they didn't retire his number. I just wouldn't want to see the drug lifestyle rewarded. The Padres handled this ultra sensitive situation well. :clap:

yagsy
04-22-2005, 01:39 PM
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Padres must walk fine line in honoring Cammy tonight

UNION-TRIBUNE
April 21, 2005

It is difficult to separate Ken Caminiti the man from Ken Caminiti the baseball player. Because what he did as a man, the demons he collected, spilled directly onto the playing field. But the Padres will attempt to make that separation tonight.

The team will honor the late third baseman, on the date that would have marked his 42nd birthday. And with Caminiti's ex-wife, Nancy, and daughters Kendall, Lindsey and Nicole expected to be in attendance at Petco Park, this will be a celebration of Caminiti the Padre and what he meant to the franchise – without mention of those demons, which led to his death Oct. 10 in New York.

Caminiti died of a drug overdose, coronary artery disease and an enlarged heart, according to the New York City medical examiner. But he did not go quietly. Earlier, he admitted he was on steroids in 1996 when he literally carried the Padres to the National League West title and was unanimously voted the league's MVP.

In a way, Caminiti's admission – he always seemed honest to everyone but himself – pushed baseball's now-scalding steroid issue onto the public stove. Unlike Jose Canseco, Caminiti was believable. And while he played hard, played with his soul, he lived way too hard. In the end, his body no longer could handle what he craved.

None of this will be in evidence this evening, and that's OK. I have no problem with the Padres honoring Caminiti, except it seems too soon. The team could have waited awhile, for the steroid storm to at least turn to intermittent showers. But this is their business. The Padres feel they owe him and his family, they owe it to Caminiti's daughters to let them see their father in a brighter light than in the darkness that eventually claimed him. Nothing wrong with that.

"It will be a sad night," manager Bruce Bochy says, "but also a night to reflect on special memories we had of Cammy. I'm sure I'll get emotional. It's a tragedy he's not with us."

They will not retire his number tonight, and that's a wise decision. It can be said that, without the steroids, Caminiti, playing with a bum shoulder, might not have had it in him to be MVP in 1996. I would not take that award away from him. He certainly earned it, and we will never know if steroids were the reason he won it. But there are those out there who would take it away, for sure.

Still, there can be no questioning the major role Caminiti played in the history of this franchise, a part still being played out. Padres owner John Moores acknowledges that, without Caminiti and Tony Gwynn, Petco Park probably would have remained a dream. Had it not been for Caminiti's excellence on the field and his matinee-idol popularity, San Diego might not have major league baseball now.

No need to say how the fans felt about him. Caminiti ranks with Gwynn and Randy Jones as the all-time most beloved Padres. Those in attendance tonight will not come to boo, although some may wish that, somehow, they could have helped the ballplayer they so admired.

General Manager Kevin Towers thought as much. During spring training, he said he suspected Caminiti of using steroids and yet did nothing about it. Not that he could have. The mistake Towers made – and his remarks earned him a trip to a congressional hearing on steroids in baseball – was saying: "You could not help but think, could I have done something differently four or five years ago that might have changed what happened to him?"

Those remarks also earned him a trip to meet with Moores, who was terribly fond of Caminiti. Towers could not have saved Caminiti, who sought help from experts who could not heal him. Word was that Moores was furious with his GM's comments and that Towers was formally dressed down because of them. It also brought some unnecessary national attention to the franchise.

I applaud Towers for coming out on the steroid issue. But Moores was right in not being happy with his GM for all but blaming himself for Caminiti's demise.

"I wasn't furious, I was disappointed," Moores says. "What Kevin suggested, that if he had been more alert he could have made a difference with Ken, just was not the case. If Kevin had perfect knowledge of what went on in Ken's brain, he couldn't have done a damn thing about it. When Ken fell off the wagon, he fell off hard.

"Ken outed himself on alcohol and drugs. For Kevin to beat himself up on this was wrong. I called him in and told him, 'What could you possibly have been thinking?' It was inappropriate guilt."

Moores sees tonight's event as a fitting tribute and he has no problem with the timing of it.

"I think it's about right," Moores says. "I think the world of Nancy Caminiti. I want Nancy and her three girls to understand a lot more about Dad. . . . Ken was admired as a ballplayer, and the girls need to have a sense of that to have a full picture of their dad."

It is difficult to argue with any of that.

yagsy
04-23-2005, 10:50 AM
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In a way, Petco was built by Caminiti

Moores credits late slugger and Gwynn
By Tom Krasovic
UNION-TRIBUNE STAFF WRITER
April 22, 2005

Honored last night by the Padres, the late Ken Caminiti made contributions that ultimately may have been worth tens of millions of dollars to the club.

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Members of the family of the late Ken Caminiti watch a video tribute to the former Padre before last night's game.

Caminiti's exploits in 1996 and later in the club's drive to the 1998 World Series helped win public support for the downtown ballpark, which the club deemed essential to long-term survival in San Diego.

"I don't know for sure that we wouldn't have a ballpark here if it weren't for Ken Caminiti and Tony Gwynn," said Padres chairman John Moores, while standing in one of the plush suites at $474 million Petco Park.

Caminiti, who died in October at age 41, said he took anabolic steroids in 1996 to build strength and cope with a torn left shoulder that required open surgery after the season. The third baseman and cleanup hitter went on that year to lead the club to its first National League West title in 12 years.

Caminiti's $3.05 million salary in '96 ranked 99th in the league. Ravaged by injuries two years later, he didn't get the payoff he wanted when he sought a contract extension and was told by Moores that the club didn't believe any player was worth $7 million in annual salary, a remark Moores later confirmed. It was Moores who decided the club should honor Caminiti, and it was Moores who insisted the club employ Caminiti as a coach in spring training last year.

Manager Bruce Bochy praised the decision to honor Caminiti, whose jersey No. 21 was painted on the grass behind home plate.

"This guy was all about winning and sacrificing himself," Bochy said. "No one can take away from how he handled himself on the field and in the clubhouse. I consider myself fortunate to have this guy with me as a player or a friend."

Said Moores: "Ken was a warrior when he played for the Padres. I don't think anybody ever played a better third base than Cammy did in his MVP year."


Praising Alderson
Count Dodgers GM Paul DePodesta among the many admirers of new Padres CEO Sandy Alderson, one of whose proteges, Billy Beane, trained DePodesta when he was an assistant GM in Oakland.
"It is not only Sandy's intellect, but also his leadership that has had a huge impact on the places he has been," DePodesta said. "The fact that I felt his legacy second-hand in Oakland speaks to the power of the impression he left on that franchise. In San Diego, he'll be adding to a baseball operation that is already very strong."


Notes
The Padres' Geoff Blum said he couldn't recall suffering an out on a ball hit as far as the one the Dodgers' Milton Bradley caught near Petco's 411-foot sign on Wednesday. "Just bad batting on my part; I've got to work on my placement," Blum said.
Padres first base coach Davey Lopes on the Dodgers' Cesar Izturis: "That kid is as good a shortstop as anyone in the game. There's no question in my mind about it."