how's this for stupid??

[imgreat95]

One of the guys who I play hockey with, who is also my cousin.. turns 21 tomorrow. We are planning to take hium out after the game. His girlfriend, though, started having a huge fit about it because it seems to me that she just does not trust him. So, anyhow, she is now going with us. Even though she is only 19 and will not be able to actually get in any of the places. Instead, she will sit in the car. AND... she wants to be home by 1am!! I am SO not happy with her right now.

[caughtstealing]

I say kill her........

[I Are Baboon]

She doesn't trust him? Time to get rid of her. Without trust, you got nothing.

[PissedPrincess]

You shouldn't be mad at her. Your cousin is the one letting it happen.

[imgreat95]

oh believe me... I am mad at him too for letting her go. But the thing is, I know that if he said no it would cause a huge fight which is why he said yes. It is the most messed up relationship I have ever seen in my life.

[PissedPrincess]

Sounds like they both have problems.

[imgreat95]

initially, she wasn't going to even let him go with us because she was afraid we were going to take him to a strip club.:hmm:

(which we were)

[PissedPrincess]

So now you had to change your plans to appease her? Your cousin can only blame himself. He is in the wrong.

[caughtstealing]

kill her now......

[Jade Sabre]

well i'd be pissed too if my bf was going to a strip club, but if yous didn't do that, she's just an idiot for going to sit in the car. it's not like she's gonna know what he's doing inside anyway. plus, once u drop her off at 1, what's to stop yous from going back out and partying? :hmm: but she is only 19... it's hard to be so trusting at that age. he should just promise to be a good boy and leave her home.

[imgreat95]

He didn't know what our plans were. Nothing had been finalized at all, so it was just going to be sort of an "on the fly" thing. The club was actually just an option because it is right across the road from the rink.

The problem is, that she would break up with him if he went with us tonight and she was not allowed to go.

As it now stands, we have to wait at the rink after th egame for her to get there. It's ridiculous. Then have to have her home at 1. We certainly will be going out again afterwards, but it sort of limits where we can go at 1am on a wednesday night.

[PissedPrincess]

Although the girl is a moron, you're cousin is a bigger one for being with her. I can't stand people who allow others to walk all over them, and then complain about it.

If I were you, I wouldn't even go, I'd tell my cousin when he stops letting someone run his life, then I'll take him out.

[imgreat95]

Clay (my cousin) is not complaining about it at all. He likes the idea of spending his birthday with her. It's the rest of us who don't like it because none of us like her. Never have. Most likely, never will.

[I Are Baboon]

Why do women get so freaked over their men going to strip clubs? What's the big deal?? It's looky, no touchy. I wouldn't care if my wife went to one of those "all male reviews", but I'd be a dead man if I went to a strip club! :uhoh:

[imgreat95]

I don't know why it is like that.

But, I know that strip clubs do nothing for me. I went to one once and i hated it. I mean, if a girl is going to stand up in front of me and take all of her clothes off, I sure as hell better be able to touch her.

[Jade Sabre]

um... lap dances... looking i don't mind cause they can see that shit on tv, it's the other options that bother me.

baboon, if u really don't care if your wife goes to those things, either you're lying to us or yourself. i have neva met a guy that wouldn't care if their wife/gf was shovin' some money is a man's g-string :hmm:

[PissedPrincess]

Most women could care less if they're husbands go to strip clubs. I mean geez, who cares? I think male strip clubs are stupid but my husband couldn't care less if I went either. Why would we?

I think they're hysterical! We (as in guys and girls) go once in a while as a group and have a ball.

[imgreat95]

farin, this is Barkeyville, not NYC. We don't have the kind of strip clubs where they give lap dances.

[PissedPrincess]

No lap dances? WTF is the point then? :biggrin:

[imgreat95]

that's the point.. i don't see the point.

[Jade Sabre]

i'm sorry, i keep forgetting that other places aren't like home :hmm: in the city, u can get a lotta shit done, which i guess is why we worry more

[pmeares17]

you should go to vegas then i refuse to go to those places but i know people who do and they say you can get ANYTHING done if you have some money:P

[imgreat95]

Wow.. what a night.... so we play hockey (an 8-0 win) and then we go to Quaker Stake and Lube, which for those non-Pennsylvanians is the home of the best wings in the USA. Everything was cool there. Katie went with us, as did my other cousins Johnny and Dusty. Johnny and Katie were both underaged so it was all cool. THEN.. I took Johnny home and we all got back together at this bar outside of town. We spenmt about an hout trying to decide on a bar which would actually let Katie in so she didn't have to sit in the car. So, after much agonizing we finally decided on this place (which, is a bar that I hate going to because you spend way too much time watching the bartender flirt with and kiss his boyfriend.)

Part way through the night, this girl walks over to Clay and says "Happy Birthday." katie stormed out of the bar. Clay followed and we didn't see him for like 20 minutes. He came back in,. and she had left. My goodness... How mature can we be?

[usc2002]

I like Colin's idea......No other solution here but to.......

Kill her now............:2guns:

[caughtstealing]

thats all Im saying.........I mean theres got to be atleast 3 or possibly 4 other girls in barkyville.........

[Baseball Guru]

Ahhh, Colin makes a cameo appearance to offer great words of wisdom:biggrin:

Your cousin is better off w/o out her...She is just an immature brat....Sheesh:hmm: She has a lot of growing up to do....Hopefully your cousin can hook up with one of the other 3 or 4 girls Colin was talking about;) :biggrin: